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I mean, how would you feel if someone unexpectedly shoved a cucumber up your asshole and then was like "What? Should I have asked first? Apparently, British GQ disagrees.
Sign up or log in to share. He's afraid of pushing you away because he had a selfish sexual impulse. He feels guilty for taking advantage of the situation but at the same time doesn't want to lose you. He probably didn't know you would respond that way, and the fact that when you hit him he didn't try again suggests he did respect your intentions when you made them clear. He can't see that you bit your bottom lip, at least from what you said it doesn't seem so.