Bankruptcy Should Be The Last Option – Try Talking First
If you are in difficulties for any reason, rather than seeking bankruptcy as a way out, consider discussing your situation with your creditors. You will be surprised at how many will listen. Of course, some have a reputation for not listening at all – but you still have to try.
When communicating with your creditors, I recommend you document everything that takes place. Keep letters, including copies of letters you may send. If you attend an interview with your creditor, document the proceedings. It is particularly important to document any offers you make, and their response along with any offers they make and your response.
There are several approaches that you can take when talking to a creditor – these include:
- requesting a moratorium on all payments for a short period of time
- requesting a moratorium on paying the principal – this means you are making interest only payments for a short period of time
- requesting a renegotiation of the loan with lower payments
- requesting reduced payments for a short period of time
It should be remembered that some of these options mean that over the life of a loan, for example, you may pay significantly more than if you simply made the normal payments.
Lenders are not necessarily obliged to make any changes to the loan conditions, even on a short term basis. It is commonly considered good public relations for lenders to accept some minor short term modifications – just don’t count on them. Be sure to document everything and if you have no luck, talk to a professional. If bankruptcy is your only option, they can help you through the process.
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May 26th, 2011 at 9:03 pm
This is good advice as long as people realize that they may have to pay taxes on any amounts forgiven by creditors. If you can make it work, great, but I found in my case that not enough of my creditors would do this, so I ended up filing bankruptcy.
Good luck to all,
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